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LGBT Are More Superior Lovers Than Heterosexual

LGBT Vs StraightSociety in the new era has been very accepting towards the LGBT community, though not fully. This acceptance has enabled people to be open about their real self to a myriad of opportunities. In multiple studies and research, the LGBT has been documented as being better lovers than their straight counterparts.  Love has been considered a free will and dependent on individual commitment. LGBT people tend to honor that commitment and love endless without boundaries. They possess various attributes that contribute towards why they are better lovers than straight individuals:

  1. Communication.

Psychologist highlights communication as the key component in enhancing love in relationships. Though straight people may state themselves as being better communicators with their partners, this is not always the case. Ladies, to be precise, are brought up to be good in communication. They express their emotions better than men, and respond are better at responding to conflict. Thus, ladies tend to be good communicators. When in a fight, lesbians keep their attitudes positive. They do not take little things personally. Combined with affection and humor, this goes a long way in achieving positive results when faced with a conflict. Besides being great at communicating with each other, LGBT is much friendlier during communication with other people. This puts them in a position where they can make new friends more effectively.

  1. Shared responsibility.

With the old belief that men should be considered sole breadwinners, this often causes conflicts amongst heterosexuals. With the current economic times, getting a well-paying job is not a walk in the park. Paying for mortgages, home contracts, education fees among other financial requirements may lead to financial complications when it comes to relying on a sole breadwinner. Though straight people may share responsibilities to curb this, there are inhibiting gender roles. There are no specific gender-roles such as this should be done by men, this by a woman, that should not be done by a man or a woman, LGBT considers each other equals. This allows them to share responsibilities effectively. Research has shown that women are on a lower pay-grade than men. This may cause a division when it comes to financial contributions in a straight relationship; one may feel being taxed more. However, being on the same pay-grade (lesbians/gay), would create a better understanding financially. Furthermore, the same pay-grade would allow LGBT partners to spend much more time with their partner when it comes to paid work or parenting responsibilities.

  1. Friendship.

Relationship experts advise friendship between partners as being crucial for a healthy love relationship. Many straight couples would indicate that friendship plays a vital role in their relationship. They may be friends but not the best of friends. Heterosexuals do not integrate their partners into their friend’s group, this is evident with most straight men who do not keep friendships with their exes. LGBT, on the other hand, view their partners as incredible people who would keep their friendship long after the relationship is over. Maintaining a friendship over the long term is because their partner was plucked from a friends group, integrating them into their world would not be much of a challenge.

  1. “Hard wired”

Lesbians and gays bond very well with each other due to their anatomy. For most heterosexuals, they do not fully understand their partner’s anatomy, and this may cause relationship complications; unhealthy sex, being one. LGBT have got the upper hand on this. They do understand their partner’s anatomy better. “Understanding themselves” gives them a better chance of understanding their partner. An understanding of the other party’s anatomy leads to better choices when it comes to words, greeting each other with gifts, and maintaining a constant vibrant communication. The amazing part is that they can have long meaningful conversations at a  deeper level. This enables them to share humorous experiences and values. With no gender expectations, it would only be great imaginations and love. Failure to understand your partner’s needs would, in the long run, end the relationship or damage it.

  1. Empathy.

Most societies do not accept LGBT as they are considered queer and out of place, and a while back they were considered disoriented. With this sense of insecurity, they do not have much support from friends, family, and colleagues, thus unlike their straight counterparts, LGBT stick with each other. Empathy is a great part of human nature, LGBT would always look out for each other, as they got no one else but themselves. This type of understanding builds a home within each other and brings a sense of acceptance to each other. This will ultimately go a long way in creating a love bond and cementing an existing one.

  1. Sex.

LGBT LoveA love affair would not be complete without sex in it. A healthy sexual relationship, as experts say, is useful in maintaining a healthy love relationship. Physiologically, when it comes to sex, men and women are different. Men tend to reach orgasm much quicker than women. In most heterosexual relationships, it is a challenge to give your partner the “perfect” sex. Having the perfect sex comes down to some issues such as understanding your partner’s anatomy and foreplay, it is not always penetration. In most situations, straight people would fake an orgasm to avoid hurting their partner’s feelings. This might in time lead to infidelity to achieve sexual satisfaction elsewhere. LGBT, on the other hand, understands each other’s sexual needs better than their straight friends. Their physiological similarities play a crucial role in achieving the “perfect” sexual experience. They do not fear to try new sexual adventures and do not hold back on their sexual needs. Oral sex for one is not treated as a special occasion. Further, landing accidental babies due to unprotected sex is not a priority in their heads. After all, when the time is right, and they feel like being parents, a test tube, surrogate or adoption can work its magic.

LGBT are better lovers than a straight person in that they possess top quality features for a healthy relationship which consist of communication, patience, friendship, and understanding. These are key factors that create and cement a crazy sexual adventure.

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Finding Other LGBT Singles Who Want The Same Things That You Do

LGBT LoveIt used to be that certain aspects of dating were off limits such as LGBT dating. Times have changed and in a really great way. If you are somebody who falls within this category and you want a same sex or mutual interest type of relationship, then there are so many wonderful resources available to you. This comes as welcome news to those who have had a hard time finding love and the same things that others want.

It used to be that finding LGBT singles was an impossible task. This was due to the fact that it was a type of dating that people didn’t understand. As we all know when it comes to dating or to life in general, people fear what they don’t understand. We live in a world though where LGBT singles want to find love and happiness just like everyone else. This is not only possible but the chances for finding a connection with somebody in this category have gone up tremendously.

You want to know where to search for people that are interested in the same things that you are. You want to be sure that you find people who fit your interests and therefore want the same type of relationship that you do. Within the LGBT category you can find some great people who can help you to find relationship happiness. Knowing where to find LGBT singles and how to make this work is the key to lasting happiness. Let’s take a look at how this works.

 

Use The Right Dating Sites

 

There are so many great LGBT specific sites out there for online dating. You want to be sure to do your research and be sure that you find the right one to fit your needs. If you are interested in just a sexual relationship, there are some great sites for that.

If you want to find somebody that is more of a long term match, then you want to filter your search to include that criteria. There are some sites that cater to individuals within the LGBT community such as Zoosk, POF, or Elite Singles. You can even cater your search to focus on individuals with this same interest on a site like eHarmony or Match.

The other thing to consider is that there so many niche sites out there, even within the LGBT community. You can find people with similar interests, into the same sort of thing that you are, and with different life experiences as well. If you want a same sex relationship or if you are into somebody who is more open and therefore bisexual, this is the time to note that.

You can focus your search on the things that matter to you and then find the sites that appeal to you the most. Using the right online dating sites will not only help you to find the right LGBT singles, but also somebody that matches what you want in a relationship too.

 

Go To The Hot Spots Around Town

 

The LGBT niche is a very strongly united one and that’s important to not here. Knowing that this has become so mainstream means that there are so many more opportunities for the relationship that you are interested in. There is nothing to hide behind and that means that there are plenty of places to meet LGBT singles who will be of interest to you personally.

A great way to meet people that you may want to date is to head to local hot spots where others just like you are hanging out. It may be a bar, a club, a restaurant, a coffee shop, or some other hot spot that you can meet people in the same place in life as you.

It may be that you can have fun and make a connection. There are so many great clubs that cater to the gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender community. You can filter out the people that you are interested in while you have a good time. This is no longer a situation that is hard to find if you know the right places to go.

 

Join A Local Dating Organization

 

This may sound like a long shot, but that’s not the case anymore. The LGBT dating niche is nothing new but it is very specific in its needs. This may not be your traditional dating situation, but that doesn’t mean that it’s not common and celebrated. That means that you can find some great local dating organizations or dating events that you could be a part of.

This is all part of putting yourself out there like anything else. Rather than sheltering yourself or compromising what you want, you can put it all out there and get what you want in return. This works much in the same way that the online dating sites work in that you have to be honest and open.

You can find a great connection and have some fun while you do it if you join a local group or dating organization that can help you to find other LGBT singles who have the same interests and passions that you do. It’s a win win when you can enjoy the process!

 

Be Open To Blind Dates

 

LGBT DatingAnother great thing to consider is that as LGBT dating has come to the scene and become more mainstream, so too have the opportunities to find somebody within this niche. If the opportunity for a blind date comes about, then by all means go for it. If you have a friend or family member or even an acquaintance that wants to set you up, then go for it. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

Though finding LGBT singles may not necessarily seem like an easy task, it’s become far more widespread and possible than it ever used to be. You want to go into this with an open mind and recognize that there are opportunities to meet people that you are interested in. You have to go in with an open mind and an open heart to meet people that you may be interested in.

It doesn’t matter if you are interested in a same sex, bisexual, transgender, or any other type of relationship. Know what you want and take the time to search for somebody who is truly a match for you. Be in control of your options and what you put out there. Then you can find happiness and a true match for your dating needs—and the rest is an amazing story to write!